Friday, April 24, 2009

Love and Let Go

Kuya Eli hiniram ko muna to...
Natamaan kasi ako SAPOL!




It’s easy to form an attachment to people and things.
When you’ve formed an attachment to people and things,
it can be a very painful experience and feeling when you realized that
it’s time to let go.
Even the mere thought of not having that person or thing in your life just
squeezes your heart in pain.
However, there are times where you or that person has changed to
the extent that it’s
necessary to let go of the relationship or friendship,
so that each of you can fulfill your
life path.
Letting go of your past and memories are also extremely hard.
Even though old
memories can be tormenting, yet you might hold on to the past and
refuse to move forward. However,by refusing to let go of the painful past,
it’ll serve as a roadblock to love.
The greatest irony of love: holding on when you need to let go, and letting go,
when you need to hold on.



Lagi na lang naiiwanan,talagang ganyan ang buhay.
They come and go...Touch and Go.
Para di masyong masakit acceptance is the only Key...
And it's true "Pain can melt the the love away"
If you already have to much...
So you need to let go when you need to hold on...

And back to the simplest things that you should need to do.
Loving your self again,and nourishing your Soul...
You don't need certain people to make you complete.
You must complete your self 1st before,they complete you.
It's a hard thing to do,but very worthy... ^_^

5 comments:

payatot said...

lagi naman mahirap ang pamamaalam lalo na nga kung naging parte na sya ng iyong pagkatao pero nasa atin na rin yan kung paano natin tatanggapin ang kanyang paglisan..tanggapin lang ng maluwag sa dib dib para di ka masyadong mahirapan na tumanggap ng kanyang pagalis...

Free_Angie said...

To Kuya Payatot:
Tama ka Kuya Payatot.
Acceptance ang tanging paraan para makamove on tayo...

maxiVelasco said...

hello gandang angie!

hello hello. sorry if i wasn't able to visit your blog often. have been so busy with my studies the past weeks. trying to finish all my projects. gosh gosh.

anyway, ganun talaga. you have to get hurt sometimes. two days ago, my exboyfriend (for 8 years na relationship) contacted me on friendster. super bad ang experience ko dun! babaero pero dahil sa love ko (noon), i always tried to forgive him until one day, i decided to let go na talaga kahit na super sakit. ayaw niya during that time pati parents niya gusto kaming magbalikan. however, there are times when the wound is so deep na ayaw mo nang lumala pa. after breaking up with him, dahil sa galit siya, we stopped our communication entirely. almost6 years din kaming nag uusap.

yun nga, he contacted me on friendster and said that he's happy for me now. tsaka, nag sorry rin sya for everything. he told me na may family narin siya and happy.

we're again friends now and that's a good feeling.

ikaw angie? musta na ang lovelife? mwah

maxiVelasco said...

hello angie! okey naman ako.. buhay pa kahit na sobrang busy, di pa nakakalimot huminga. hehe.

ikaw? musta na?

Free_Angie said...

WOW!
Hello Maxi thank you sa pag share ng experience mo sa akin.I really appreciate it.
Maxi naintindihan ko kung di ka palaging makavisit sa blog ko.
Ako din eh di masyadong nakakapang post ng blog ko. okey lang yon.
Basta keep touch lang tayo.
Okey na ako don.^_^
Babaw lang ang kalingayahan ko.

Sakit din nang experience mo sa love life ano?
Pero ganyan talaga ang life,kailangan pagda anan ang mga pagsubok ng buhay.

I'm happy na your happy now with your love life...
Love life ko...
hmmmm.....di ko masasabi sa ngayon...Time can only tell...

Salamat Maxi...Hugs...^_^